Let the Queens Rise: No More Shrinking for Others’ Comfort
There is a kind of betrayal that wears lip gloss and calls itself friendship.
It smiles sweetly while delivering a punch to your solar plexus.
It says, “I’m so happy for you!”
But your body knows — it’s a lie.
The words feel like honey and shattered glass.
This is the voice of the frenemy.
The bitter mentor who once believed in your light —
Until it began to shine brighter than hers.
The martyr mother who insists that to be good, you must suffer.
The friend who subtly reminds you to tone it down,
Because “you don’t want to come off too much.”
So you learned to dim.
To make yourself more palatable.
To shrink in the name of safety, of sisterhood, of staying loved.
But here’s the truth:
You were never meant to be small.
You were never meant to clip your wings to soothe someone else’s fear of flying.
You were never meant to hold back your brilliance so others could feel okay in their shadows.
And what if you no longer had to?
What if this is the era of unapologetic radiance?
Of women rising, not in competition —
But in cooperation, in co-creation, in QUEENDOM?
The ones who are truly meant to walk beside you —
They won’t flinch at your shine.
They’ll mirror it. Celebrate it.
Rise with it.
And those who shrink back or spit venom?
Let them become irrelevant.
Not out of hatred — but because you are simply too busy blooming.
So to the women who have dulled their edges for others to feel less threatened…
To the women who have tiptoed through their lives to avoid upsetting the fragile…
Enough.
It’s time to step off the eggshells and onto the throne.
It’s time to create a life that honours the magnitude of your gifts.
Not someday.
Now.
The ones who are willing to change will rise too.
The rest? Bless them — and move on.
And if your voice shakes as you rise, let it.
It’s just your power remembering how to speak.
Ready to Rise?
If you’re done shrinking, and ready to reclaim the fullness of who you are —
I’d love to walk with you.
Private sessions with me are available both online and in-person.
We’ll clear the old patterns, ignite your sovereign energy, and build from the truth of who you are.
🕊️ Let’s begin your return to royalty.
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Nihan Sevinc
With radiance and shimmering possibility,
