When Everything Looks Perfect, But Isn’t
A personal story of unraveling, remembering, and returning to what’s true
Ten years ago, my life looked perfect on paper.
A successful career.
A good-looking marriage.
A beachside apartment in one of the most livable cities on Earth.
I had done everything I was told would bring happiness, checked every box.
And yet, I was quietly unraveling.
Anxiety. Burnout. A deep, persistent ache that whispered: This isn’t it.
I searched relentlessly. Therapy. Meditation. Spiritual teachings.
While these offered temporary refuge, nothing created the kind of lasting shift my being was hungry for.
Until one day, I stumbled across a YouTube video introducing the tools of Access Consciousness.
There was no dogma. Just simple, potent questions and energetic tools that, when I started using them, actually worked.
And everything began to change.
I found the clarity and courage to end a relationship that was dimming my light.
I began making choices that were true for me, not just what looked good from the outside.
It wasn't about perfection, which has always been a pitfall for me. It was about being present and choosing.
When I received my first Access Bars® session, it felt like being in the forest:
Spacious. Quiet. Alive.
Something in me exhaled for the first time in years.
I went on to learn Access Bars and began trading sessions regularly.
Within two months, the PTSD symptoms I had lived with for years began to dissolve.
I experienced joy I hadn’t known was possible.
My nervous system softened.
My world expanded.
People around me noticed.
“You’re different,” they’d say. “What are you doing?”
Now, I’m a certified Access Bars® and Access Energetic Facelift® Facilitator, sharing these tools with people who sense that something more is possible, and are ready to choose it.
I don’t offer healing.
I offer space.
I don’t fix people.
I invite them to remember what they’ve always known.
If you're here, reading this, there’s likely something in your world asking for a shift.
A softness.
A different rhythm.
A return to what’s true for you.
Is now the time?
If this story stirred something in you…
If you’ve been craving change—but haven’t found a tool that truly shifts things…
You’re warmly invited to a free Zoom class:
Tools That Change Everything
A live intro to the verbal and energetic tools that helped me unravel years of stress, judgment, and emotional noise, and return to space, choice, and aliveness.
We’ll explore the verbal tools of Access Consciousness, how to use them in your daily life, and what becomes possible when you stop trying to fix yourself, and start choosing what works for you.
Find out more about this Zoom class here.
August 12, 10:00 am PDT.
(Recording available if you can’t make it live)
Your life doesn’t have to stay stuck.
You’re allowed to have more ease.
And it might be closer than you think.
With presence and possibility,
Nihan Sevinç
