For the Woman Who No Longer Chases

There comes a moment when you realize—

you don’t have to chase.

You don’t have to prove.

You don’t have to deserve.

You don’t have to wait to be chosen.

You don’t have to overgive to be worthy.

You get to be you.

Fully. Clearly. Softly.

And the ones who are meant to meet you there… will.

This is for the woman who’s remembering…

A Poem for the Woman Who No Longer Chases

You choose for you—

not for someone else.

Not with noise,

but with presence.

Not with effort,

but with knowing.

You no longer twist your shape

to fit inside someone’s maybe.

You don’t chase.

You don’t plead.

You don’t perform.

You stand.

Soft. Clear.

Wildly magnetic.

You are the space where beauty finds its way.

Where possibilities gather, curious and reverent.

Where life itself rearranges

to meet the one

who stopped running

and started receiving.

Listen…

You don’t have to fetch the magic.

You are it— be it.

The kind that whispers,

invites…

summons

those who are willing

to receive.

— Nihan

P.S. Are you still chasing—or are you ready to let life meet you?

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